Tuesday, August 30, 2011

It's hard to say goodbye

I knew *Ricky was unique the moment I met him. As the school days progressed, it became apparent to Tillie and I that Ricky was on a different level than the rest of the class. He cannot speak, nor write. We finally learned that he had brain swelling as a baby and should be transferred to a different school, one that could better assist him.

But what Ricky lacks intellectually, he makes up for expressively. He is truly incredible, affectionate, inquisitive, and friendly. His smile melts your heart. He loves the human contact of his peers, constantly observing them, touching them, learning from them.
Today, I watched as Ricky squeezed little *Jenny so tight that her face turned red. “Ms. H!!! Riccky squeezed me so hard, it hurt my face!”

I explain that Ricky wants to be friends with everyone and loves giving hugs. “You can show him, Jenny, how to give gentle hugs.” I observe as Jenny gently hugs Ricky, his face beaming. Suddenly, other students join to the hug, until it is a giant pile of hugs. Everyone is laughing.

They all support Ricky so well. I’m so impressed by their compassion. And I hope he can experience this type of community the rest of his life.



It will be hard to say goodbye to that incredible boy.

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